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Thoughts on the Education of Daughters / With Reflections on Female Conduct, in the More Important Duties of Life: CARD-PLAYING.

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CARD-PLAYING.
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  1. Front Matter
    1. Preface
    2. Table of Contents
  2. The Nursery
  3. Moral Discipline
  4. Exterior Accomplishments
  5. Artificial Manners
  6. Dress
  7. The Fine Arts
  8. Reading
  9. Boarding Schools
  10. The Temper
  11. Unfortunate Situation of Females: Fashionably Educated, and Left Without a Fortune.
  12. Love
  13. Matrimony
  14. Desultory Thoughts
  15. The Benefits Which Arise from Disappointments
  16. On the Treatment of Servants.
  17. The Observance of Sunday
  18. On the Misfortune of Fluctuating Principles
  19. Benevolence
  20. Card-Playing
  21. The Theatre
  22. Public Places
  23. Back Matter
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CARD-PLAYING.

Card-playing is now the constant amusement, I may say employment, of young and old, in genteel life. After all the fatigue of the toilet, blooming girls are set down to card-tables, and the most unpleasing passions called forth. Avarice does not wait for grey hairs and wrinkles, but marks a countenance where the loves and graces ought to revel. The hours that should be spent in improving the mind, or in innocent mirth, are thus thrown away; and if the stake is not considerable enough to rouse the passions, lost in insipidity, and a habit acquired which may lead to serious mischief. Not to talk of gaming, many people play for more than they can well afford to lose, and this sours their temper. Cards are the universal refuge to which the idle and the ignorant resort, to pass life away, and to keep their inactive souls awake, by the tumult of hope and fear.

“Unknown to them, when sensual pleasures cloy,
“To fill the languid pause with finer joy;
“Unknown those powers that raise the soul to flame,
“Catch every nerve, and vibrate through the frame.”

And, of course, this is their favourite amusement. Silent, stupid attention appears necessary; and too frequently little arts are practised which debase the character, and at best give it a trifling turn. Certainly nothing can be more absurd than permitting girls to acquire a fondness for cards. In youth the imagination is lively, and novelty gives charms to every scene; pleasure almost obtrudes itself, and the pliable mind and warm affections are easily wrought on. They want not those resources, which even respectable and sensible persons sometimes find necessary, when they see life, as it is unsatisfactory, and cannot anticipate pleasures, which they know will fade when nearly viewed. Youth is the season of activity, and should not be lost in listlessness. Knowledge ought to be acquired, a laudable ambition encouraged; and even the errors of passion may produce useful experience, expand the faculties, and teach them to know their own hearts. The most shining abilities, and the most amiable dispositions of the mind, require culture, and a proper situation, not only to ripen and improve them, but to guard them against the perversions of vice, and the contagious influence of bad examples.

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