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Thoughts on the Education of Daughters / With Reflections on Female Conduct, in the More Important Duties of Life: ON THE MISFORTUNE OF FLUCTUATING PRINCIPLES.

Thoughts on the Education of Daughters / With Reflections on Female Conduct, in the More Important Duties of Life
ON THE MISFORTUNE OF FLUCTUATING PRINCIPLES.
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  1. Front Matter
    1. Preface
    2. Table of Contents
  2. The Nursery
  3. Moral Discipline
  4. Exterior Accomplishments
  5. Artificial Manners
  6. Dress
  7. The Fine Arts
  8. Reading
  9. Boarding Schools
  10. The Temper
  11. Unfortunate Situation of Females: Fashionably Educated, and Left Without a Fortune.
  12. Love
  13. Matrimony
  14. Desultory Thoughts
  15. The Benefits Which Arise from Disappointments
  16. On the Treatment of Servants.
  17. The Observance of Sunday
  18. On the Misfortune of Fluctuating Principles
  19. Benevolence
  20. Card-Playing
  21. The Theatre
  22. Public Places
  23. Back Matter
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ON THE MISFORTUNE OF FLUCTUATING PRINCIPLES.

If we look for any comfort in friendship or society, we must associate with those who have fixed principles with respect to religion; for without them, repeated experience convinces me, the most shining qualities are unstable, and not to be depended on.

It has often been a matter of surprise to me, that so few people examine the tenets of the religion they profess, or are christians through conviction. They have no anchor to rest on, nor any fixed chart to direct them in the doubtful voyage of life; how then can they hope to find the “haven of rest?” But they think not of it, and cannot be expected to forego present advantages. Noble actions must arise from noble thoughts and views; when they are confined to this world, they must be groveling.

Faith, with respect to the promise of eternal happiness, can only enable us to combat with our passions, with a chance of victory. There are many who pay no attention to revelation, and more, perhaps, who have not any fixed belief in it. The sure word of comfort is neglected; and how people can live without it, I can scarcely conceive. For as the sun renews the face of nature, and chases away darkness from the world, so does this, still greater blessing, have the same effect on the mind, and enlightens and cheers it when every thing else fails.

A true sense of our infirmities is the way to make us christians in the most extensive sense of the word. A mind depressed with a weight of weaknesses can only find comfort in the promises of the Gospel. The assistance there offered must raise the humble soul; and the account of the atonement that has been made, gives a rational ground for resting in hope until the toil of virtue is over, and faith has nothing to be exercised on.

It is the fashion now for young men to be deists. And many a one has improper books sent adrift in a sea of doubts—of which there is no end. This is not a land of certainty; there is no confining the wandering reason, and but one clue to prevent its being lost in endless researches. Reason is indeed the heaven-lighted lamp in man, and may safely be trusted when not entirely depended on; but when it pretends to discover what is beyond its ken, it certainly stretches the line too far, and runs into absurdity. Some speculations are idle and others hurtful, as they raise pride, and turn the thoughts to subjects that ought to be left unexplored. With love and awe we should think of the High and Lofty One, that inhabiteth eternity! and not presume to say how He must exist who created us. How unfortunate it is, that man must sink into a brute, and not employ his mind, or else, by thinking, grow so proud, as often to imagine himself a superior being! It is not the doubts of profound thinkers that I here allude to, but the crude notions which young men sport away when together, and sometimes in the company of young women, to make them wonder at their superior wisdom! There cannot be any thing more dangerous to a mind, not accustomed to think, than doubts delivered in a ridiculing way. They never go deep enough to solve them, of course they stick by them; and though they might not influence their conduct, if a fear of the world prevents their being guilty of vices, yet their thoughts are not restrained, and they should be observed diligently, “For out of them are the issues of life.” A nice sense of right and wrong ought to be acquired, and then not only great vices will be avoided, but every little meanness; truth will reign in the inward parts, and mercy will attend her.

I have indeed so much compassion for those young females who are entering into the world without fixed principles, that I would fain persuade them to examine a little into the matter. For though in the season of gaiety they may not feel the want of them, in that of distress where will they fly for succour? Even with this support, life is a labor of patience—a conflict; and the utmost we can gain is a small portion of peace, a kind of watchful tranquillity, that is liable to continual interruptions.

“Then keep each passion down, however dear;
“Trust me, the tender are the most severe.
“Guard, while ’tis thine, thy philosophic ease,
“And ask no joy but that of virtuous peace;
“That bids defiance to the storms of fate:
“High bliss is only for a higher state.”
Thomson.

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